中午吃完飯回來，桌上多了四封信，三封是客戶的的invoice，一封是從台北寄來的，打開來發現到是封聖誕卡，是朋友寄來的。
一直以來都不是很喜歡禮數這種東西，尤其是聖誕卡片或新年賀卡，每當收到以後，就得想辦法要回送，而為了表現不要失禮，往往會造成自己的困擾，除了要花時間去挑卡片外，有的還親手做卡片，或得費心思填滿裡面的空白，之後，還需要跑一趟郵局寄信，或買郵票投郵筒，而這些都是花精神的，心想，不過就是一個節日，有必要那麼麻煩嗎？而昨天中午收到卡片時，心境卻大有不同，完全沒有困擾的感覺，反之，有種很幸福的溫暖，彷彿我還是有人關心的，至少在365天當中，有一天，是有個人這樣的想要祝福我。儘管，我沒有回卡的打算。
我想對於禮數這種事，是該換個想法了。
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我想寄卡片的人
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你是一個重要的朋友囉！！
一看就知道是誰寄的～
哈。
不過收到卡片是真的挺開心的。
I understand why you would feel exhausted by returning favor.
But as for myself, I don't expect my friends to return anything back to me. I still prefer to use traditional card. I think it is more meaningful than sending an e-card.
From what you wrote, you'd take time to pick cards and concern of writing something back. It shows you have a good quality.
Returning a favor is always tiring but somehow when u really do it, you enjoy in it!
my way to return his favor is posting this note to thank him. i am sure he doesnt mind la. i know it is better to pick up a card and send to him, but that is so not my way. i rather do myself better. ha..
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