The update

交友的照片常常更新
可以帶給他人不同的感覺
在挑照片時
總是在想要挑自己喜歡的還是他人會欣賞的？
我選擇了前者
如果自己都不喜歡的話
又怎麼期待他人給你正面的回應

人往往不知道該是對自己好還是對他人好
害怕對自己太好 會有閒語
但對他人太好 又會失去自我
二者怎麼達到平衡
我還在學習

I usually update my profile,especially my photos.
This may make my netmates feel fresh and also think that I am not stubborn.
However,
someitmes I wonder, when people pick up photos,
they always pick up what they like, or what others may like?
I think that is interesting.
I choose photos what i really like and hope others may like it as well.
If i choose a photo that i do not like, how can i expect others to like me?

We always live in a world with many opinions.
some are from parents, friends, teachers, but just a very few from our own.
The reason is we always live in others world, like Truman.
That is not a good thing.

From now on,
if we always lead our lives ouselves,
we will find the life is getting easy and simple.
besides, there will be one more gift, confidence!